We all want to fall in love. Why? Because that experience makes us feel completely alive. Where every sense is heightened, every emotion is magnified, our everyday reality is shattered and we are flying into the heavens. It may only last a moment, an hour, an afternoon. But that doesn’t diminish its value. Because we are left with memories that we treasure for the rest of our lives.
Relationships–of all kinds–are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.
The happiest people on this planet are not those who live on their own terms but are those who change their terms for the ones whom they love.
Love is really about unconditional acceptance. When there’s not much freedom, there’s not much true acceptance either!
Loving Awareness
Love is about trust and respect. It’s about believing in the other party to love us wholely because when they do, who cares about the freedom they have. Knowing we are in their heart all the time is all that matters.