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By: Michel

Michel — Sun, 07 Sep 2008 21:50:26 +0000

Once upon a time there was a boy and a girl playing around every where trying to have all the fun they can get and one day they felt in LOVE , that boy loved her from all of his heart , he promised to make her the happiest girl on earth ,he promised to give her all of his heart , that boy reached a point that he gave her latterly all the love in the world, he drowned her in the sea of love everyone told him that she’s not good for him and that they will not last together , but he was not listening he was blinded in love .

One day he woke up and realized that she left him and that he’s ….alone , then and this is the worst part, after all that love, he found out that she didn’t love him and she cheated on him like a dozen time , actually when that guy was sacrificing his life for her , when he was thinking all day just to make her happy , when he was just trying to be a better person for her … SHE was thinking of someone else , her mind was with another guy am not going to tell you about her heart because I don’t think she have one, he was fighting everyday just to make their life better , and she was fighting everyday just to find another way to make him think that she loves him , as soon as she left she started to look for another guy , and what killed him most that he was watching all of that , he was standing right there stunned looking at her and what she’s doing and thinking how much of an idiot he was but there was nothing to be done .

She decided what she want and he had to deal with the consequences of being an idiot all that time , she broke his heart a heart the gave her the whole world in her hands, she broke an incent heart , she broke the heart that only want to make her happy….. , you know after all I don’t think my heart can forgive her , I don’t think my bleeding heart can fall in love again , though I do have some hope , am trying to live my life now but everything around me reminds me of her , I woke up everyday with her picture in my eyes , I did loved her you know .

Day after day I’ll forget all of this it’s only a matter of time but I’ll never forget my happy times , I’ll never forget how much I loved her

By: Grace Zhang

Grace Zhang — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 06:33:24 +0000

Hi! I just browse on internet and find your blog.It’s amazing to me that your blog really…really strike my heart~~~
I will read it one by one to understand youand all your friends who visited your blog～o～
Nice to meet you, imogen~~ and I hope maybe you can help me to figure out something about my love in the future~~

By: zzz

zzz — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 20:33:00 +0000

its a bad feeling to love someone and to knw that that person wont be yours….it really feels that ur game is over and u become poorer than the poorest person on earth coz u lack the most precious thing anyone`s heart would desire in life….

By: Juliet

Juliet — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 01:30:37 +0000

there is this guy that i loved
but i wasn’t sure if i loved him
ppl say he likes me but he never talks to me
we used to be great friends but he stopped talking to me
some say he realized he like me and got more shy
while others say he just hates me now..
he only says insults to me when i try to talk to him
i tried making contact with him
but he never gives any reply back to me
some ppl think he only saying insults to be cool
i really care for him he may seem un emotional
but deep down he can be a nice person from the heart
i believe it so its true im worried
do u think he likes me back..?
or does he just completely hate me now..

By: ......

...... — Sun, 20 Apr 2008 06:30:22 +0000

Hi i like a girl, but how will i know if she likes me too?
Can anyone site some examples please…

By: Susan

Susan — Sun, 23 Mar 2008 20:21:04 +0000

I’ve been for 7months in a relationship with 40 years old divorced man (4 years ago). He has a 10 years old daughter and she comes twice in a month; also, his mom is now living with him cause she is a little sick. I live in a town 2 hours from his and for my work I have to travel 3 days in the week to his city it does mean living with him 3 days in a week and also the weekends. When his daughter came we didn’t sleep in the same room.
1 month ago we went to a trip (a tropical island) with his daughter; it was really painful because he was with her all the time taking her pictures and kissing the kid ….he didn’t hold my hand or kiss me in front of her. We didn’t have time for us in the trip, the day we wanted to go out for a walk (without his daughter), she started to cry and we didn’t go. .
I decided to try to enjoy the trip, we went to a tour and for lunch time, all the tour group was sitting in the same table. I sat first and close to the guide (a young man); my BF and his daughter came late and asked me to move close to them..I said: I am going to stay here; and didn’t want to move. After lunch he told me I was disrespecting them and if I continue behaving like that I must move my things from his place and our relationship will end. I told him ok..we still had 5 days to finish the trip and I tried to do make any comment. When we came from the trip, I returned to my town without talking because his daughter was still there. The week after I told him we needed to talk and I stay in a hotel; I told him I didnt like his words and I asked to treat me as his GF and give me my place and time in front of his daughter . He said he can not understand what I am asking him because he just did his best and has showing me all his love. One week after I told him I can not continue because my BF should try to understand my feelings and do not want to suffer in the future. ..then we agree in give us a week.
I contact his best friend’s wife which is a psychologist and ask her for an advice (because they know him for 4 years), she told me that it is not surprising for her my BF behave cause he is extremely obsessive with his daughter and no one else exists when they are together; one of her comments was to leave him because he would never understand me..and he just want a wife to have kids.
I tried for a month.. explaining to him in a nice way by email, phone, chat..but he said I should forget/ignore and continue together..Two days ago..we chat and told me he is tired of this situation and realized I deserve someone different and better….I phone him and tried him understand that I LOVE HIM but I need he recognized it was not nice to treat me like he did and I needed my place…he said that I have chosen my future without them (his daughter too)….
I love him…but how to make he understand…he told me if I want we can come back but we must not talk about the past….what to do??
*His daughter is lovely and she likes me and the same for me..but can not stand when he spoiled her…..I am 32..he was telling me..he wants marry me……(before the trip).

By: Nina

Nina — Sat, 22 Mar 2008 14:17:14 +0000

I was in love with a guy called. He was not into me but he wanted to be a friend. We were friends for almost 1 year. Finally, I realized that he would never fall for me and I couldn’t get over him, if we stayed such frequent contacts. So, I told him peacefully that I had been in love with him but I wanted to move on so I decided to not have any contact with him at all until I was ready. He replied that it’s not a surprise for him to hear how I felt for him and he’s sorry that he couldn’t answer my love. He would not try to contact me any more in order to respect my feelings but hope to hear from me soon. I think it is a good closure for me. I thank him for that.

I hope your love story can have a happy ending. If not, you should go for a closure FOR YOURSELF. A closure is always not happy but it should not be bitter as well. Only with such a peaceful closure, your wound will recover completely.

By: ......

...... — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 14:54:34 +0000

Hi everyone, I’m Not good at this but here it goes………..
I just transfered to a new school. Have this classmate which didn’t mean anything to me(I was such a childish minded idiot at the time). We weren’t even close at all.

So a full year of school passed by….. The next year we were in the same section again but this time I’m more adept to people. I was communicating with her real well.
Whenever there’s spare time to spend I just spent it w/ my close friends(including her).

At that time everything was so good, I always got high grades,good friends, Never a single problem in the world, never cared about anything……Until this girl and I got so close we were always on the phone, I would always act as here protector, always kid around each other,we made promisses that WE WILL NEVER GET ANGRY W/ EACH OTHER,,,alot of people said that we were so close that we were like the perfect love mates, while infact we were not, I didn’t care, just denied it, just said that we were friends to everyone, people always thaught we were in love w/ each other, but all this didn’t mean anything to me……………..UNTIL,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,One day she just didn’t come near me anymore, I didn’t mind it, She never called my name again, She never really avoided me but as the days went on I felt the feeling that she just didn’t want to come near me for some odd reason.

Still I didn’t care,……as more time passes by she now doesn’t come near me but tries to be very approching to other buys in the class…….I know one of them which is my friend that often hangs around w/ in the class( w/ me still not caring)…..Until at some points she tries to make me jealous( dont know if she is intending it or is it just really my mind that thiks it)……At one time she just told me to please exchange chairs w/ her just so she can talk and fool around with my seatmate, w/c is my friend……So i got up and did so,,,,,,But inside me, I got this feeling that I can’t explain, It was odd, I was like so angry w/ her because it was too much already, I really felt that she was trying to make me see something that I can’t tell…
I shouted at her said awful words (even though we promised not to do that at each other)…She was like shocked….

For that day I never said anything to her again…, The next day I just kept evading the sigh of her,,, Didn’t talk to her, and when I got home I just missed texting w/ her on the phone, It was like I had a crush on her that i just felt after so long, But I didn’t believe myself, I always but in my head that it’s nothing, It will go away.
Next day again,,,…..could not talk to her and she could not talk to me,,,,It was like a burden….and so on till the next day my feelings for her kept getting stronger…….
and so on the 4th day I took up all my courage and said sorrry to her,,,,,,…She put a smile on her face and said “Why did you get angry w/ me”?
I said because I was stupid,,,…So after that I felt an overwealming joy, But I tried so hard to bring things back to how they were, somehow I longed for the days when we were still very close friends.,,,,I now Knew that i was deeply in-Love w/ her.
But I failed,, instead shes still trying to make me see something……
As months went pass… we Were always in on and off moods w/ each other,,, one week we are talking w/ each other the next week we were not.
I always thought about her, And when i saw something in my head,,, I just can’t deserve her, I can’t be in-love w/ her, I have to forget her, I need to stop longing for her……….
And so after all these I changed, I never tried to talk to her again, Lost my friends, Everyone said I had a big change in attitude,Everyone said they prefered the old me..,,,,,,My grades all failed,,,,,Met new friends that led me to no good, Everything that I beleve was good changed, I became rebelius, Did not respect anyone, Not even God himself, I never tought of my well-being anymore, commited crimes etc, etc,……All of this because of her, I still can’t get her out of my head, i’m so angry w/ her but so in-love w/ her at the same time,,,,,,,
At this point of my life I became a total EMO as you call it……Untill me and my friend were writing letters to each other w/ stories of my problem w/ her,………..Somehow this letter came into her possession,……..There it says that I love her so Much that I could give up my life just for her( wich was realy true)………
But still nothing happened because I know she already knows that,……From the time I gave her chocolates,Gifts, etc……
Okay lets skip over a huge Part of it since its getting very very long………………………………

Right now, I’m not talking to her, I’ve decided to go to school somewhere else, I haven’t said a word to her since mid January,,,,,
I’m used to the jealosy I once felt so painful,,,,
My heart is now numb,At some points I think of commiting suicide,,,,
But I just want to talk to her,,,,,
What can I do to talk to her?
I still want to know the reason why she changed?
I’ve never said i Love her( and im not planing to do so)
I just want to leave all my memories of her behind.
And alot of more qustions that I need answers….

Please I Need Your Help,,,
I’m willing to give my email add,,,,,

Thank you very much,,,,,
Sory it was so long but if I didnt cut it dow it would be 16X longer,,,,,,,, (Told you I wasnt good at these things)

thanks again Plese Help

By: kim

kim — Sat, 24 Nov 2007 18:36:07 +0000

well i liked all teh stories in here what can i say abt love i was in love 3 times all the time the guys cheat on me my first one was the love of my life we were together for 1 year then he left for canada its so hard to part with someone u love its like the time is going so quick. anyways the night he was going away he came to my home to meet my parents n to ask for my hand in marriage. my dad told him its up to u, not us. we held hands as he was walking towards the car we were still holding hands then little by little we let go, the car drove off. i felt like dying to be honest. i fell to the ground crying he looked back at me n left becoz he was getting late for his flight he used to call me like 3 times per week at first then it went to once every three months i called him once n asked him y are u not calling me he told me he’s so busy n that we always fight with each other that’s a lie i asked him if he ever loved me he told me point blank, no i never did. i cried for days. due to this, i made up my mind to leave him. we were together for 3 years n it ended due to distance i can tell u distances can break relationships. my 2nd one was so cute n kind towards me but he lies a lot. he had gotten a teenage girl pregnant n he wanted to marry me then he would have told me he is having a kid but i found out n i left him. the 3rd was a divorced married man. i was in love with a man 2 times my age he loved me alot he was there for me when i needed him but the only thing bad abt him is that in the 1 year with him he used to say i love u but now in 1 year’s time he did not i know love has to be shown not said. but still who would not like to hear someone telling them i love u i mean we are in bed n he cant say it. my 4th was an indian guy. i am western girl he’s an indian from india he told me he loves me a lot. i say i love u too after months. i told him i love him here’s his story… his family won’t accept me due to my religion he’s hindu, i am not. sometimes u feel he’s lying to me he wants to go to canada then marry with me we are still together but we fight a lot. i don’t know what will happen to us n our story have learned that god knows what’s best for us so leave everything to god he may close one door but open another for u.

By: jadedHeArT

*jadedHeArT* — Fri, 23 Nov 2007 06:01:24 +0000

hi everyone!

im new here and im so amazed how the people here, especially imogen give very sensible advices. .

no, i didn’t break up with my bf (bcoz i dont have one. .lol)
but im here to ask what u guys think i should do with this very confusing situation I am in. .

i met this guy 5 months ago. .he used to be my student for 7 weeks in my 1:1 class. .he’s from korea and im from the philippines. .1m 21 and he’s 27. .at first, i was the one who liked him but im very sure that i didnt show signs that i liked him. .but after a few weeks, he was telling me he liked me and he’s crazy bout me. .after hearing those, i felt disgusted. .and my feelings for him just vanished into thin air. .after that incident, i tried avoiding him to the extent that i skip from his classes. .he was so upset when he realized that i was avoiding him so he decided to go to back to his country earlier than his original plan. .and promised that he’d be back by december. .for me

after he left, we get to talk to each other online. .i started getting used to chatting with him. .and i started falling for him. .but i just kept it to myself. .for about 2 weeks, i had problems with my inet connection. .so, we weren’t able to communicate. .i realized during those times that i dont really feel anything for him.

when i had my i.net back, i blocked him from my messenger list and unblock him again everytime i feel guilty blocking him. . the other night, he asked me. . “can i go there this december?”. .i dont know what to reply. .so i left it unaswered. .i know i have to give him my answer ASAP. .

im considering a lot of things and its making me so stressed out. . like: our nationality, age difference. .im working right now and if he comes here. .what will he do while im at work, he doesn’t know anyone from here except me. .if he comes here, i feel obliged to show him around. .and most of the time i still get turned off with his englsih skill. .im not that good too but his is just so. . .i dunno. . =(

i cant just tell him not to come here. . cuz its just so mean. . but if he comes, i just dont know waht to do with him. . =(

i know its kinda selfish but i have this mind setting. .i dont want u to be my boyfriend but please just stay there. .i have this feeling that i willnot find another guy who likes me as much as he likes me. .

please HELP. .and im sorry if it’s kinda long. .

God bless u all. . ^^*

By: eve

eve — Tue, 20 Nov 2007 20:29:52 +0000

thank you so much for your advice. my ex and I broke up over a year and half ago and im still trying to move on…i hope i can take your advice and put it into play!

By: Confused

Confused — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 23:48:08 +0000

hey someone
thanx for answering
its just real confusing. im sure u’d agree
he says that he does care but lately he just does so many things that im sure would hurt me if id ever find out.
and ugh its just so frustrating.
im sorry ur going through the same thing.
but thanx anyways

take care too

By: don't know what to do

don't know what to do — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 03:53:59 +0000

PLEASE HELP!!!!

well i have two people that wants to be with me…
the first one is my ex…
she broke up with me because she was tired of keeping our relationship on the low…
well at least that’s what she said…
but about a week later she goes out with her ex…
she said she was in love with me but last time i checked if you’re really in love with somebody you cant just leave them for another person
last time i checked that ain’t what love is

but when things weren’t going good between them and they break up…
and everytime she cries she comes to ME…
and i wanted to keep my promise that whatever happens to our relationship i will always be there for her…and i was..
she’d cry and she’d talk about her ex to me but she just didn’t know that it was hurting me…
so then i realized that it was time for me to do something FOR ME!!
i can’t put her as my priority anymore because im just her option
so we didn’t talk for a while..
even though i missed her i had to move on…

Things were going good for me…
wasn’t really thinking about her as much as i did
weren’t really talking to her at all
i blocked her from my phone…
and when she’d leave a message to call her back i wouldn’t
and i made sure that the house phone was always in use

by then i was hanging out with my friends and talking to another person
i didn’t really like the person but i thought that i would give it a chance
but we took things slow because i was just recovering from being broken hearted
and that person understood…

i really thought that i was over my ex
but just when i was starting to get over her
she comes back in my life…
she couldn’t get through me so she called my brother
my brother answered so i couldn’t really do anything but talk to her
so we talked on the phone for quite a while
then as we were about to hang up she drops the bomb on me…
that she was still in love with me…

and now i don’t know what to do
all i know is that im scared to get hurt again…

i have my ex who says that she’s still in love with me…
but i’m having doubts about her…
is she saying the thruth or im just her rebound from her other ex that she broke up with me for???
but i really love her though..
but i don’t think that i love her enough to risk my heart again…

on the other hand i have someone that i know likes me a lot…
i don’t really like that person but i know if i just give it a try i can feel the same way that person feels about me…

i love my ex so much
i know she did me wrong
but there’s something about her that i just can’t let go

i appreciate that person for waiting
i dont want that person to get hurt
if only i’d give that person a chance then maybe things would work out

I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!

By: someone

someone — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 15:07:11 +0000

Hey Confused..

U know ….thats wut goin on with me ….i swear its da same
but am sure that she loved me …. we are friends now …and she cant do anything without ask me….we still need eachother
but she dont want to back to me….i donno if i have to stop speakin with her …but i feel that am lost without her …or without her voice….

i donno if he rely loves u …but if he does…he would come to u
and maybe if u stop talkin with him …u will forget him

donno wut to say more
take care
txt back

By: Confused

Confused — Wed, 07 Nov 2007 03:25:43 +0000

Hi everyone
im new to this site but all these stories really make me feel like everyone would understand and try to help with my situation so here it goes.

About a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years.
At the time it seemed like the right choice,
and in part it still seems that way to me since our greatest enemy was in fact distance..
He lives near the border in mexico and I live in Colorado, USA so it just seemed like our relationship was getting kinda pointless.
Specially since he wuld just frustrate me a lot, and say false promises that he obviously didnt keep.
Even then, I truly loved him.
i gave him my whole heart and hes just someone i cant forget.
and now we’ve decided to remain friends but its just not the same.
im still used to the guy that would tell me evrything, and all the things he did.
now he acts like my word could mean less, and it just hurts cos i still rememver waht it used to be.
I still care for him
its obvious evrytime i talk to him.
and he keeps teting me evryday. making attempts to talk to me, but when we finally do he hardly says anything or listens to much that i have to say.
i honestly dont understand this behavior and im getting tired of it.
ive tried to tell him that maybe its best we just dont talk at all, so my old wounds stop opening up each time we talk.
but he insists that that would hurt more.
so im just confused. a part of me wants to go back to what it used to be but the other part tells me not to be so stupid and wake up and see that nothing can go back to how it was.

all i want to know is if he does really love me like he says he does or is it just an act to use me as a side dish whenver he needs it?

thank you to whoever takes the time to answer..

By: Someone

Someone — Mon, 05 Nov 2007 08:42:53 +0000

Hey imogen
How Are U…Hope Ur Gud …..
i didnt write any comment from lot of time
i had to study so i couldnt …..
Miss U All :)..
i wanted to say :
i broke up with ma Gf ….who i loved more than maself ….i rely thought i will be with her till da last breath …..cuz i loved her more than anything in da whole world ….but God doesnt want us to contineu with eachother ….. Wut can i do more??
we broke up before 20 days …… i donno … i thought i will not live without her …. i rely lost everything …she was ma everything …..i still love her and i still have da hope to be with her again …..i will still tryin….hope da god will help me …

hey sara…..i read ur story its rely hard ….and am Glad that u are Happy now …. u will get in love again …and u will have person who will keep u in his eyes :)….

this site is rely da best site ….i like to read ur stories friends
cuz its rely makes me relax

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